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Cain Manor

Weddings at Cain Manor start from £2,400, based on a weekday in January.
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Cain Manor is situated at the end of a long, winding woodland driveway at the top of a hill with far-reaching views over Surrey's Golden Valley. Located close to the border of Hampshire and Surrey, Cain Manor is an exclusive-use venue.
Key Info
Cain Manor
Churt Road
Headley Down
Hampshire
GU35 8SR
Website: www.harperweddingvenues.co.uk
Tel: 0345 130 9966
Email: cainmanor@harperweddings.co.uk
 
 
Capacity
Ceremony:123
Dinner:123
Standing:170
Facilities
Licensed For Marriage:Yes
Accommodation:11 bedrooms
Exclusivity:Yes
Food & Drink
Catering:In-house
Bar:In-house
Licensed Until:No
Other
Pets Welcome:Yes
Disabled Facilities:Yes
Child Friendly:Yes
Contact venue for late availability and exclusive offers
Pricing
From £2,400

Based on a weekday wedding in January.

Starting price includes:
  • Exclusive use venue hire.

Please contact the venue for detailed prices.

About
Setting

Cain Manor is a must-visit wedding venue. It features lush gardens, a charming rustic aesthetic, and an impressive triple-height Music Room for ceremonies and receptions. The estate’s grounds and barn-style architecture create a beautiful setting, blending elegance with warmth and natural beauty.

Ceremony

Couples can exchange vows in the Music Room, an expansive space with a stunning triple-height ceiling. Cain Manor also offers outdoor ceremonies, allowing you to tailor the day to suit your vision. The venue accommodates up to 123 guests for the ceremony and daytime festivities.

Reception

Evening celebrations at Cain Manor bring the space alive, welcoming up to 200 guests for a memorable reception. With its rustic charm and ample room for both dancing and dining, the Music Room offers a warm, inviting setting for a magical night.

Cain Manor’s dedicated Wedding Planning Team is available to guide you through every stage, from early preparations to the wedding day itself. Using a proprietary online wedding planner, they ensure that every detail is thoughtfully organised for a stress-free experience.

Accommodation

Cain Manor’s accommodations include a spacious bridal suite and 11 additional guest rooms, each designed to provide a comfortable and intimate stay. Ground-floor en-suite bedrooms are also available, ensuring accessibility for all guests.

Food & Drink

On the day of your wedding, Cain Manor’s expert banqueting chefs prepare dishes designed to impress. The team takes great care to ensure each guest enjoys food and drink of exceptional quality, making every meal a highlight of the celebration.

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Thanks so much again for helping our wedding day go off without a hitch. Feedback is overwhelmingly positive. The planning phase was very well supported – you were very responsive and guided us through the process nicely. The planning app is excellent. On the day, the staff were excellent, very attentive without being overbearing. You did an excellent job of preparing everything and setting up just how we wanted. It’s worth a special mention to your catering team – our guests have universally fed back how amazing the food was – well done! We had a fabulous, stress-free wedding and are so glad we chose Cain Manor to have it!

 

Married December 2025

Karen & Leo

We were absolutely blown away by how fantastic your team was. Everyone was incredibly attentive and went above and beyond, and with a sense of fun, too. The leads were Mickayla, Jane, and Elliyah. Special mention to Jill, who made a lot of us laugh at the wedding breakfast. The team really didn’t miss a thing and put us at ease in the process. Everything felt effortless to us, but only as a result of their unwavering commitment to making sure the day ran smoothly!

 

Married August 2025

Natalie & Tom

We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect wedding venue! From the moment we arrived, the team made us feel so welcome and supported throughout the entire process. The setting was absolutely stunning—beautifully maintained, full of character, and the ideal backdrop for our photos. Everything ran smoothly, and the staff were incredibly professional, friendly, and attentive. They went above and beyond to make sure every detail was just right, and we felt completely relaxed.

 

Married October 2025

Jodie & Tobie

We had a wonderful day and excellent feedback from all our guests, the staff were excellent and made everything run perfectly. Everyone had a lot of fun, and everyone is smiling in all our pictures. Mickayla did an excellent job and passed over to the night manager without a hitch. The night manager was also very accommodating and really made the day for us. Further big thanks to Jane and Gill, who really helped us on the day, helping with our kids and keeping the bride’s nerves calm.

 

Married June 2025

Emma & Los

We cannot recommend Cain Manor highly enough – we had the most perfect wedding day and the team are beyond incredible. They made us feel so special and welcome from the first show around to the day itself, and responded so quickly and helpfully to our many emails and questions. We loved the online planning management system – underestimated how helpful it would be to keep us on track! A huge thank you, Jane, Elliyah and Antonio – on the day itself, they were just wonderful. We could relax and enjoy knowing that they had everything in hand; the day ran completely smoothly, and we were so well looked after from start to finish. We had many comments from guests about how amazing the food was and how lovely the bar staff were.

 

Married September 2025

Alice & Ivan

We honestly cannot fault Harper Weddings; our wedding day was everything we imagined and more, and it honestly exceeded all of our expectations. We had the best day, and loved how seamless everything was. A massive shout out to Mickayla, she is a wonderful person, and truly made our final meeting and lead up to the wedding really easy, and she was such a joy to work with. She is a massive asset to Cain Manor. We will be forever grateful, as it was truly the most magical day.

 

Married September 2025

Niquita & Alex

Julie, Megan, Elliyah, Mickayla and everyone at Cain Manor – we cannot find the right words to thank you enough for making our wedding day truly the best day ever. Everything was perfect from the moment we arrived. Our guests are still messaging us to say they had the most fantastic time and to compliment the stunning location. From the beginning, we were made to feel so special and welcome by the team, and the whole planning process was made so easy, and communication with you all was fantastic. Thank you especially Elliyah for making the day run so smoothly and checking in on us regularly, we were made to feel so cared for and we could truly relax and enjoy ourselves to the full on the day. Also a special mention to Jill who was loved by the guests! Once again, thank you so so much; Cain Manor is really the most perfect venue.

 

Married April 2026

Kate & Chris

Harper Weddings was absolutely sensational; I could not fault any of it. From the initial planning to the wedding day was perfect, every request we had was arranged, I honestly have no more words apart from I wish we could do it again and I would choose you every time!

 

Married May 2026

Rachel & Will

Cain Manor was the perfect wedding venue. From the moment we walked through the door, we knew it was exactly what we wanted for a winter wedding. The team were incredible at communicating with us in the lead-up to the big day, and we truly couldn’t have asked for more. On the wedding day itself, the staff went above and beyond. Everything ran seamlessly, allowing us to fully relax and enjoy the day without worrying about a thing.

 

Married December 2025

Jade & Thomas

The setting is absolutely stunning, and the team were amazing from start to finish. Throughout the planning process, we had regular meetings and were given so much support and advice, which made everything feel stress-free. On the day, we were so well looked after by Sarah and Elliyah — everything was set up beautifully without us having to worry about a thing. Honestly, it was the best day of our lives. We’re so grateful to the whole team and couldn’t recommend Cain Manor more!

 

Married July 2025

Alice & Matt

Everyone was quite simply outstanding. The whole team was incredibly professional, the day was absolutely flawless from start to finish, and for that, we cannot thank you enough. Mickayla and Tom were exceptional hosts, always on hand, everywhere, running everything seamlessly from start to what was a pretty late finish. You were both amazing!! Elliyah, too, all the staff were superb. There were so, so many really nice personal touches along the way. Kim felt so well looked after by Mickayla, who was constantly around to check all was OK. And the same level of care carried on into the next day, too.

 

Married August 2025

Kim & Toby

Thank you to Mikayla, Jane and the team for making our dreams into a reality. From the planning process, to supporting with ideas, to flawless execution on the day. The support, advice and care are simply unmatched. We knew and continued to be proven throughout that we chose the right place. We can’t quite put into words our gratitude and can’t recommend this amazing place enough.

 

Married August 2025

Hannah & Noah

The whole venue is utterly beautiful. Food and drink were phenomenal. What sold Cain Manor to us was their planning system, which we’d hoped would take some of the stress away. Well, it did! There is so much to do for a wedding, but having so much of it organised through their planner made the process less stressful for us; it was really incredible. What we hadn’t banked on was the amazing people. I cannot imagine a more kind, prompt, thorough and professional service. Megan, Julie, Mickayla and Elliyah in particular were incredible. And then on the day, more phenomenal service. I was told going into it that something was bound to go wrong, no wedding goes off without something going wrong. But ours was perfect. It went so smoothly on the day, and all the staff were incredible.

 

Married June 2026

Fin & Matt

I just wanted to say thank you all for the most amazing day. We enjoyed every minute of it. I can definitely say it was the best day of my life. Thanks to all of you for making it happen! All of the staff were so friendly and helpful throughout the day. It really made it special. The food and bar service were absolutely spot on. All of the guests we spent time with the next day were giving the venue and staff the highest praise – saying it was leagues above other weddings they had been to!

 

Married May 2025

Annika & Theo

From the moment we stepped into Cain Manor to visit the venue, we knew it was the one. Everything is a 5-star experience – from the planning stages all the way through to your wedding day and beyond! All our guests commented on what an amazing venue it was, and how attentive the staff were. Thank you to Julie, Elliyah, Mickayla and Megan for making sure everything ran perfectly. We would do it again in a heartbeat!

 

Married May 2026

Freya & Ben

Barney and I had the best day ever and enjoyed every minute of it. All of the staff were so attentive, friendly and helpful, and it made everything go so smoothly for us. We were able to enjoy the time with our family and friends as you all took care of everything for us and made it look effortless. I cannot thank you enough. You made our day so special, and we are so happy that we were able to celebrate our big day at your amazing venue with your fantastic team.

 

Married June 2025

Nadia & Barney

We had the absolute perfect wedding day, and it’s all thanks to this incredible venue and their amazing team. From the moment we first visited, we knew this was the place for us – beautiful, well-kept, and full of warmth. A huge special shoutout to Mickayla, who guided us through every step leading up to the big day. Her organisation, patience, and genuine care made the entire planning process stress-free. We couldn’t have asked for a better venue or a better team. If you’re looking for a place that will treat your wedding like the most important, personal moment it is, this is the one. Highly, highly recommended!

 

Married November 2025

Hollie & Ryan

We chose Cain Manor because the beauty of it swept us off our feet. We planned our wedding with Cain Manor because the journey was seamless and adaptable, and we celebrated our wedding day this May with Cain Manor because we knew the day was going to be everything we ever dreamed of. On the day, everything was personalised to us, and the attention to detail was exceptional. I wouldn’t change a thing about our day, but I would give anything to experience it all over again.

 

Married May 2025

Chrissie & Thomas

The team at Cain Manor totally exceeded our expectations on our wedding day. From the prompt communication and support throughout the planning process to the seamless organisation and outstanding service on our big day. We felt so well looked after by Elliyah; she completely took control of everything in such a calm and professional manner – we really didn’t need to worry about a thing. We were blessed with a beautiful sunny day, meaning we could make the most of the stunning grounds. The atmosphere, food and setting couldn’t have been more perfect. Cain Manor is an incredibly special venue full of love and character; we made the best decision! A special mention goes to Jill, who was absolutely brilliant all day – all of our guests loved how much she interacted with everyone, made everyone laugh and how nothing was too much trouble. Thank you, everyone, for making our dream wedding day come true!

 

Married April 2026

Rachel & Bradley

We cannot thank the Cain Manor team enough; you honestly did everything you could to make our dream of an outdoor wedding happen. We want to make a specific shout-out to Mickayla, our organiser for the day and Tom, our MC, for making the day run so smoothly and keeping us calm when the inevitable excited nerves kicked in. The team are a well-oiled machine. From the moment we viewed Cain Manor, we fell in love with it. The venue is not only beautiful but has that home-from-home feeling. Thank you for helping make it the most magical day.

 

Married September 2025

Dani & Joe
FAQs
Do you offer overnight accommodation?

Yes, Cain Manor has one bridal suite and 11 additional bedrooms on site. It can accommodate up to 29 guests.

Is the venue licensed?

Cain Manor is licensed to host a civil ceremony indoors and outdoors.

Do you have in-house caterers?

Yes, with the luxury of having all your food and drink arranged by our brigade of in-house chefs, you won't need to worry about a thing. There will always be enough food and drink per guest to ensure your guests have a fabulous time and the party continues through the evening.

Do you help with planning?

Yes-With an experienced team of wedding planners available seven days a week, a team of managers on the day who go out of their way to ensure our service exceeds your and your guest's expectations, and unique online planning software so every detail is documented, our impeccable service is second to none.

What facilities does the venue have?

Cain Manor offers many facilities, including modern tech for a contemporary wedding: a Sonos sound system, cigarette lighters, live-stream webcams, microphones, and DJ facilities. In addition, the venue offers an outdoor ceremony space, overnight accommodation, and on-site parking. The list goes on!

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