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Cain Manor

From £2,400

Based on a weekday wedding in January.

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Cain Manor is situated at the end of a long, winding woodland driveway at the top of a hill with far-reaching views over Surrey's Golden Valley. Located close to the border of Hampshire and Surrey, Cain Manor is an exclusive-use venue.
Key Info
Cain Manor
Churt Road
Headley Down
Hampshire
GU35 8SR
Website: www.harperweddingvenues.co.uk
Tel: 0345 130 9966
Email: cainmanor@harperweddings.co.uk
 
 
Capacity
Ceremony:123
Dinner:123
Standing:170
Facilities
Licensed For Marriage:Yes
Accommodation:11 bedrooms
Exclusivity:Yes
Food & Drink
Catering:In-house
Bar:In-house
Licensed Until:No
Other
Pets Welcome:Yes
Disabled Facilities:Yes
Child Friendly:Yes
Contact venue for late availability and exclusive offers
Pricing
From £2,400

Based on a weekday wedding in January.

Starting price includes:
  • Exclusive use venue hire.

Please contact the venue for detailed prices.

About
Setting

Cain Manor is a must-visit wedding venue. It features lush gardens, a charming rustic aesthetic, and an impressive triple-height Music Room for ceremonies and receptions. The estate’s grounds and barn-style architecture create a beautiful setting, blending elegance with warmth and natural beauty.

Ceremony

Couples can exchange vows in the Music Room, an expansive space with a stunning triple-height ceiling. Cain Manor also offers outdoor ceremonies, allowing you to tailor the day to suit your vision. The venue accommodates up to 123 guests for the ceremony and daytime festivities.

Reception

Evening celebrations at Cain Manor bring the space alive, welcoming up to 200 guests for a memorable reception. With its rustic charm and ample room for both dancing and dining, the Music Room offers a warm, inviting setting for a magical night.

Cain Manor’s dedicated Wedding Planning Team is available to guide you through every stage, from early preparations to the wedding day itself. Using a proprietary online wedding planner, they ensure that every detail is thoughtfully organised for a stress-free experience.

Accommodation

Cain Manor’s accommodations include a spacious bridal suite and 11 additional guest rooms, each designed to provide a comfortable and intimate stay. Ground-floor en-suite bedrooms are also available, ensuring accessibility for all guests.

Food & Drink

On the day of your wedding, Cain Manor’s expert banqueting chefs prepare dishes designed to impress. The team takes great care to ensure each guest enjoys food and drink of exceptional quality, making every meal a highlight of the celebration.

“

We had a wonderful day and I cannot praise the staff enough, first class, efficient and friendly. The venue was perfect and absolutely spotless with excellent service. Thank you for making my daughter’s wedding worth waiting for and I can recommend Harper at Cain Manor 100%.

Carol, Mother of the Bride

My husband and I got married at Cain Manor on 25th May 2024, and it was the best day of our lives. We lucked out with the weather but, despite this, opted to have our ceremony in the stunning music room, with the reception out in the beautiful gardens. If I write much more, it will become a love letter to Cain Manor, so in summary:

1) Food – impeccable (I received many a mouth-watering emoji the next day)
2) Team – wonderful, everyone is so kind and helpful, and they really will go above and beyond for you
3) Wedding planning – we didn’t have a separate wedding planner, and looking bac,k it would have been totally unnecessary. Cain are spectacular at what they do and this is really what sold them to us initially
4) Venue – we had so many compliments on how stunning Cain Manor is, and looking back at photographs, we are certain it was the absolute best choice for our day

Big thank you to Guy for being an absolute hero on the day and to the amazing team for holding our hand through this process, in particular Maddie, Freya, Emy, Ashley and Daisy (to name a few!).

 

Married May 2024

Nikki & Jacob

We had a wonderful day and excellent feedback from all our guests, the staff were excellent and made everything run perfectly. Everyone had a lot of fun, and everyone is smiling in all our pictures. Mickayla did an excellent job and passed over to the night manager without a hitch. The night manager was also very accommodating and really made the day for us. Further big thanks to Jane and Gill, who really helped us on the day, helping with our kids and keeping the bride’s nerves calm.

 

Married June 2025

Emma & Los

First of all, we would like to say a massive thank you to all of you at Harper, both from the online support to those working on the day (Ella and Dean were wonderful!). You couldn’t have made the day run any smoother than it did and everyone was so keen to help – from having our own personal canapé tray to unlocking the pool in the morning, we felt so loved by the team! Everyone was very professional and friendly in their manner and made our day unforgettable.

Charlotte & Josh

We just wanted to drop Harper an email to say thank you so much for a fantastic day! We had an amazing time and everything went smoothly. The staff on the day were brilliant and really helpful (especially Dan). We are currently on the way back from a super stay at The Harper which was a beautiful hotel.

Natasha & Simon

Thank you to Mikayla, Jane and the team for making our dreams into a reality. From the planning process, to supporting with ideas, to flawless execution on the day. The support, advice and care are simply unmatched. We knew and continued to be proven throughout that we chose the right place. We can’t quite put into words our gratitude and can’t recommend this amazing place enough.

 

Married August 2025

Hannah & Noah

The setting is absolutely stunning, and the team were amazing from start to finish. Throughout the planning process, we had regular meetings and were given so much support and advice, which made everything feel stress-free. On the day, we were so well looked after by Sarah and Elliyah — everything was set up beautifully without us having to worry about a thing. Honestly, it was the best day of our lives. We’re so grateful to the whole team and couldn’t recommend Cain Manor more!

 

Married July 2025

Alice & Matt

We just wanted to thank you and the team for all your help with our wedding and for making it an amazing day. Everything went to plan even the weather and we have had so many lovely comments about Cain Manor, the staff and the food. From the minute we arrived at Cain Manor on the day the stress just lifted, we knew from the day we visited it was the right venue for us and we were totally right. Thank you again to everyone at Cain Manor & Harper Weddings for making our day so very special, it was everything we had hoped it would be.

Fiona & Rob

We were absolutely blown away by how fantastic your team was. Everyone was incredibly attentive and went above and beyond, and with a sense of fun, too. The leads were Mickayla, Jane, and Elliyah. Special mention to Jill, who made a lot of us laugh at the wedding breakfast. The team really didn’t miss a thing and put us at ease in the process. Everything felt effortless to us, but only as a result of their unwavering commitment to making sure the day ran smoothly!

 

Married August 2025

Natalie & Tom

Wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone at Cain Manor who made our wedding day on Friday so perfect. Everyone was so lovely and accommodating to us and our guests throughout the wedding. We had so many of our friends and family telling us how fantastic the team were! Daisy was incredibly helpful in the morning, helping us work out a few room changes, and was always there if we had any questions, as well as making sure me and Phil always had a drink or canapé in hand! Everyone also loved Gigi – she was amazing at making sure everyone’s glasses were topped up, and she also very kindly gave me a fan when she saw me getting a bit hot, haha! We’re so happy we chose Cain Manor as our venue and are already wishing we could do it all over again. It is truly such a gorgeous place and the October sunshine we had really added to the wonderful atmosphere.

 

Married October 2024

Helen & Phil

We chose Cain Manor because the beauty of it swept us off our feet. We planned our wedding with Cain Manor because the journey was seamless and adaptable, and we celebrated our wedding day this May with Cain Manor because we knew the day was going to be everything we ever dreamed of. On the day, everything was personalised to us, and the attention to detail was exceptional. I wouldn’t change a thing about our day, but I would give anything to experience it all over again.

 

Married May 2025

Chrissie & Thomas

Barney and I had the best day ever and enjoyed every minute of it. All of the staff were so attentive, friendly and helpful, and it made everything go so smoothly for us. We were able to enjoy the time with our family and friends as you all took care of everything for us and made it look effortless. I cannot thank you enough. You made our day so special, and we are so happy that we were able to celebrate our big day at your amazing venue with your fantastic team.

 

Married June 2025

Nadia & Barney

We cannot thank the Cain Manor team enough; you honestly did everything you could to make our dream of an outdoor wedding happen. We want to make a specific shout-out to Mickayla, our organiser for the day and Tom, our MC, for making the day run so smoothly and keeping us calm when the inevitable excited nerves kicked in. The team are a well-oiled machine. From the moment we viewed Cain Manor, we fell in love with it. The venue is not only beautiful but has that home-from-home feeling. Thank you for helping make it the most magical day.

 

Married September 2025

Dani & Joe

We just wanted to say a massive thank you to all the staff. You all went above and beyond, so many of our guests have commented on the incredible service received. You were all so attentive, and nothing was too much trouble. We cannot thank you enough! You made our day stress-free and we were able to focus on just enjoying ourselves and celebrating our day.
A huge thank you to Elliyah, Sarah, Daisy and Antonio. Everything was seamless from start to finish.

 

Married October 2024

Kathryn & Stewart

Everyone was quite simply outstanding. The whole team was incredibly professional, the day was absolutely flawless from start to finish, and for that, we cannot thank you enough. Mickayla and Tom were exceptional hosts, always on hand, everywhere, running everything seamlessly from start to what was a pretty late finish. You were both amazing!! Elliyah, too, all the staff were superb. There were so, so many really nice personal touches along the way. Kim felt so well looked after by Mickayla, who was constantly around to check all was OK. And the same level of care carried on into the next day, too.

 

Married August 2025

Kim & Toby

We honestly cannot fault Harper Weddings; our wedding day was everything we imagined and more, and it honestly exceeded all of our expectations. We had the best day, and loved how seamless everything was. A massive shout out to Mickayla, she is a wonderful person, and truly made our final meeting and lead up to the wedding really easy, and she was such a joy to work with. She is a massive asset to Cain Manor. We will be forever grateful, as it was truly the most magical day.

 

Married September 2025

Niquita & Alex

We both just wanted to say a huge thank you to all the team for helping bring our plans to life. From the first day we came to look around Cain Manor, we both instantly knew it was the venue for us. Everyone was so welcoming, and it instantly felt like home.

Throughout the whole planning process, we never waited more than a day for a response. Elliyah was so good at coming back to us, and answering questions. The planner was so simple to use and made keeping track of everything really easy.

It really was the most perfect day, and we genuinely couldn’t have asked for more. So many of our guests commented on how beautiful the venue was, and how amazing the food was too. We wish we could do it all over again!

 

Married October 2024

Emily & Matthew

We chose Cain Manor as our wedding venue, and we are absolutely over the moon that we did everything was just perfect. This venue is absolutely stunning. The team at Harper were amazing throughout our planning journey, and the staff working on the day was fantastic. The food was outstanding. Our guests still talk about it now. Our day at Cain Manor was everything we could have ever dreamt of and more. I would absolutely recommend this venue.

 

Married September 2024

Hannah & Ashley

I just wanted to say thank you all for the most amazing day. We enjoyed every minute of it. I can definitely say it was the best day of my life. Thanks to all of you for making it happen! All of the staff were so friendly and helpful throughout the day. It really made it special. The food and bar service were absolutely spot on. All of the guests we spent time with the next day were giving the venue and staff the highest praise – saying it was leagues above other weddings they had been to!

 

Married May 2025

Annika & Theo

Just wanted to thank you, and all the other Harper Staff for the wonderful day we had on Monday. Everything went perfectly – all that planning was worth it!

Thank you for your support over the very long time we had to wait, it was worth it in the end, Lizzie and George enjoyed their day and everyone had a wonderful time. We have had many positive comments ranging from the beauty of the venue, the delicious food and excellent service during the meal, the helpful staff and the comfortable beds! Thank you for your part in making the day work and will you pass on my thanks to all the staff.

Sally, Mother of the Bride
FAQs
Do you offer overnight accommodation?

Yes, Cain Manor has one bridal suite and 11 additional bedrooms on site. It can accommodate up to 29 guests.

Is the venue licensed?

Cain Manor is licensed to host a civil ceremony indoors and outdoors.

Do you have in-house caterers?

Yes, with the luxury of having all your food and drink arranged by our brigade of in-house chefs, you won't need to worry about a thing. There will always be enough food and drink per guest to ensure your guests have a fabulous time and the party continues through the evening.

Do you help with planning?

Yes-With an experienced team of wedding planners available seven days a week, a team of managers on the day who go out of their way to ensure our service exceeds your and your guest's expectations, and unique online planning software so every detail is documented, our impeccable service is second to none.

What facilities does the venue have?

Cain Manor offers many facilities, including modern tech for a contemporary wedding: a Sonos sound system, cigarette lighters, live-stream webcams, microphones, and DJ facilities. In addition, the venue offers an outdoor ceremony space, overnight accommodation, and on-site parking. The list goes on!

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