Before you even consider typography, HEX codes, or booking a brand photoshoot, you need to go deeper. Way deeper. Until you have clarity on the true essence of your brand — your voice, your story, and your point of view — your visuals are simply a beautiful shell.
Here’s another way of looking at it: if design is the body, and strategy is the mind, your brand voice is the soul. Without it, your brand might look gorgeous (and believe me, many do!), but it won’t feel quite right, and it certainly won’t connect in a way that resonates with the right people.
Over the years, I’ve worked with many incredible businesses and venues in the wedding industry through my own business, Digital Bloom, and I’ve seen the same pattern play out time and time again: your business evolves, but your brand doesn’t evolve with it. And it’s that disconnect that couples can feel instantly.
A strong brand identity is built on a strategic foundation, and here are the five key ingredients every business needs to craft one that’s both distinctive and deeply authentic, before you move on to the aesthetics.
Think of your vision as your compass and your values as the cornerstones of your brand. They guide every decision you make — from the style of the events you host to the way you communicate with couples, their guests, and even your team.
Too often, businesses skip straight to the “fun” part of branding (the visuals – well, that’s what some would argue. Naturally, I disagree!) without getting crystal clear on what they actually stand for. And when that happens, messaging becomes generic, and marketing lacks focus. We’ve all seen “Your day, your way” splashed across countless websites, right? My point exactly.
So, think about what matters most to you. Like, what REALLY matters. Is it exclusivity? Sustainability? Family history? Integrity and transparency? Uncompromising service? Choose three to five core values that feel absolutely non-negotiable for your business, and let them inform everything — from your sales process to your Instagram captions.
When your values are clear and consistent, you’ll not only attract couples who share them, you’ll also find it far easier to make confident, aligned decisions across the entire business.
If your brand identity is going to resonate, you need to know who you’re talking to, and I’m not just talking about demographics (though those are useful). Go beyond “engaged couples aged 28–35 in the Home Counties” and dig into their priorities (and their values), their lifestyles, their habits, and what they’re genuinely looking for in a venue or supplier.
The more you understand them, the more your brand voice can speak their language. And when that happens, you end up not just selling a venue — you’re showing them a vision of their perfect wedding day. Ta-da!
Let’s be honest — beautiful venues are everywhere. Therefore, I’m afraid to say “We have a beautiful venue” isn’t a USP. Your USP is what you offer that no one else can. It might be your location, your team, your inspiring history, your supplier connections, or the unique way you host weddings.
The key is to get specific. “We’re friendly and flexible” is a nice but somewhat vague statement. “We allocate a dedicated wedding coordinator to every couple, from the moment they book until the last guest leaves” is tangible, memorable, and a lot more powerful. See the difference?
Once you know your USP, it needs to sit at the heart of your brand messaging. This isn’t a throwaway line on your About page; it ends up being a golden thread woven through every single touchpoint, from enquiry responses to the stories you tell online.
Ok folks, this is where the real connection happens.
Your brand voice is the personality of your brand: how it speaks, the energy it gives off, the way it makes people feel, and your messaging pillars are the big themes you keep coming back to; the consistent ideas that tie all your communication together.
For example, if you run a beautiful old country house, your pillars might include “history and legacy,” “exclusive experience,” and “personalised service.” If you’re an ultra-modern, design-led space, your pillars might be “architectural excellence,” “creativity,” and “immersive guest experience.”
These pillars aren’t just for your website either; they should guide all your communications: brochures, social posts, email campaigns, even the way you write your menus and design your signage. When your voice and pillars are clear, every interaction with your brand feels consistent, intentional, professional, and unmistakably you.
Features and facilities are important, of course, but it’s stories that people remember.
Your venue is more than nice interiors and a hire fee; it becomes the backdrop for once-in-a-lifetime memories. That’s a pretty big deal — and the way you talk about it should reflect that.
The most influential brands don’t just participate in culture — they shape it. They sell more than a product or service; they sell a way of seeing the world. Your venue has that power too, but only if you commit to telling its story with authenticity, vision, and soul.
Your brand identity and voice aren’t something you can simply “add on” once the visuals are done; it’s the foundation everything else is built upon (and will make every other step and process much smoother and seamless, trust me).
However, I also know that looking at your own brand is like looking in the mirror — it can be notoriously hard to see what others see. That’s where I come in. I help venues and wedding suppliers distil their magic into a brand voice that showcases their distinct perspective, one-of-a-kind energy, and makes the right couples feel instantly at home.
When your brand voice and messaging pillars are clear, that’s when the magic happens. You stop chasing trends (and Instagram likes) and start leading with genuine authenticity. And that’s when your messaging starts to work for you — across your website, brochures, enquiry emails, social posts, and more.
If you have any questions, my inbox and DMs are open. Ask me anything, I’d love to chat!