Based on a weekend wedding in May.
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Set down a quiet country lane at the foot of the South Downs, The Secret Barn sits within working farmland with wide views stretching towards Chanctonbury Ring. This is an authentic agricultural setting, surrounded by open countryside, where the pace feels unhurried, and the landscape forms a natural backdrop to the day.
The layout flows easily across multiple outdoor spaces, including a paddock for camping, a lawn for drinks and firepit gatherings, and a licensed orchard for open-air ceremonies. With countryside in every direction and a sense of gentle seclusion, the venue offers flexibility while remaining grounded in its rural setting.
Ceremonies take place either in the ancient barn or outdoors in the licensed orchard. Inside, the historic ceremony barn has a quiet, atmospheric character, with original beams overhead, birds nesting in the rafters and sunlight filtering through old windows. Wooden benches line the aisle, giving the space a simple, chapel-like feel.
For couples drawn to the outdoors, the orchard offers an alternative setting amid greenery and open skies. Both options reflect the venue’s natural character and offer a relaxed yet meaningful setting for exchanging vows.
The threshing barn becomes the centre of celebrations, offering a characterful space for dining, speeches and dancing. Long trestle tables create a relaxed communal atmosphere for sharing dinners, before the room transforms for an evening party.
Outside, the lawn and firepit invite guests to step out for fresh air, late-night conversations and marshmallow toasting as the evening unfolds. The barn’s original features, from creaking boards to exposed beams, create a celebration that feels informal, welcoming and full of personality.
Camping is available in the paddock, allowing guests to stay on site and extend the celebration into the following morning. This flexible option suits relaxed, multi-day gatherings and keeps friends and family close throughout the event.
Food at The Secret Barn is generous, seasonal and deliberately unfussy. This is not about intricate plating or formal dining, but relaxed, flavour-led dishes designed to bring everyone together around the table.
Guests might begin with substantial canapés on the lawn, followed by sharing boards or tapas-style starters, before moving to colourful salads, barbecues and generous platters served at long trestle tables. Much of the produce is grown on site, with herbs, beets, salad leaves, courgettes and pumpkins regularly appearing on the menu. Desserts lean towards crowd-pleasing favourites, such as Eton Mess layered with seasonal berries.
The emphasis stays on abundance and sociability rather than precision plating. As dishes are shared and guests gather around the tables, the barn comes alive with conversation, laughter and the easy atmosphere that defines the day.
The Secret Barn sits near Steyning in West Sussex, at the foot of the South Downs. The countryside location offers wide views and a peaceful setting while remaining within reach of nearby towns and coastal areas.
The venue is approximately 45 minutes from Gatwick Airport and accessible via nearby train stations at Billingshurst and Shoreham-by-Sea.
Full directions are shared once arrangements are confirmed, but shhh, it’s top secret!
We knew when we stumbled across The Secret Barn that we’d found something special. If you’re looking for a beautiful, rustic, non-wedding-y wedding venue, then this is it. No packages, chair sashes or conveyor belt weddings – just a gorgeous barn to make your own. The setting is absolutely stunning and we feel incredibly lucky that we got to celebrate our wedding there. The planning process was relaxed and easy. Hannah is super chilled, which instantly put us at ease. Any questions or worries we had were instantly answered and we felt we were in safe hands throughout. The Petal & Feast team are all bloody lovely and definitely know their stuff. They were brilliant both in the lead up and on the day, which meant zero stress for us! The day itself was a dream. The food was delicious. The flowers were beautiful. The barn was perfect. We wouldn’t change a single thing. We had so many compliments, and our friends and family still keep talking about it. We honestly can’t recommend Hannah, Petal & Feast and The Secret Barn enough. If you’re getting married, do it here.
Where to begin? We fell in love with the barn and it’s incredible South Downs setting straight away. Hannah and the team were fantastic in the build-up, from being really responsive to our various emails, to helping us put our own special stamp on the Big Day. They completely got what we wanted and it was so reassuring to know we were in safe hands. It was fab being able to get into the barn a few days before the wedding and the team couldn’t have been more helpful. The day itself totally surpassed all expectations. We’ll never forget walking into the barn, seeing the stunning flowers, including the most gorgeous flower hoop, as the afternoon sun streamed in and we welcomed our awestruck guests. Everyone waxed lyrical about the barn, beautiful cake and amazing food, which was the best we’ve ever had at a wedding (although we would say that!). We can’t thank Hannah and the team enough – it’s a day we’ll never forget and we wish we could do it again!
We wanted to say the biggest thank you to you all for everything you did to make our wedding so magical. From the venue and helping us to get it all ready, the delicious food (everyone keeps saying how delicious the lamb was), to the most beautiful grown flowers, every detail was absolutely unreal. Our guests haven’t stopped telling us how special the day was, and how special a place you have created at the Secret Barn, and we couldn’t agree more. And an extra thank you for the cake(!) – gosh, we really hadn’t put much thought into the cake, and you came out with the most amazing masterpiece full of colourful wild flower blooms- unbelievable – our friends have also said how epic that was, and that was all down to you guys. You were so responsive and supportive in the run-up, always very relaxed, which helped put us completely at ease. We’re especially grateful for all the help you gave both before the day and throughout. We were so happy that the weather gods were on our side and we were able to have our ceremony in the outside orchard which was so special, we are so glad it all came together so perfectly. We had the best time ever, and we will always remember it with such joy and gratitude. Thank you again for making it unforgettable.
Married July 2025
Thank you so much for everything. From start to finish you have been amazing. The beautiful Secret Barn was the perfect setting. We loved our ceremony in the orchard under the gorgeous tree (anyone know what type of tree it is!?) and the barn looked absolutely stunning! The flowers were drop dead gorgeous, and everyone has said how amazing they were. The bouquets were even more beautiful than I had ever imagined. Thank you for taking my Pinterest and turning it into reality AND MORE! And the food… was completely delicious. Again, so many people have said how good it was. You are such a fantastic team and have made the whole process such a joy. I want to do the whole thing again, exactly the same. I wouldn’t change a thing. It was just perfect.
The team at Petal & Feast were a dream to work with for our special day. Not only is the venue beautiful, but Sally, Hannah, and the rest of the team made sure everything was easy to plan well in advance and ensured that our day ran smoothly from start to finish. Recommend highly!
Married July 2025
We knew when we stumbled across The Secret Barn that we’d found something special. If you are looking for a beautiful, rustic, non-weddingy wedding venue then this is it. No packages, chair sashes or conveyor belt weddings – just the gorgeous barn to make your own.
The setting is absolutely stunning and we feel incredibly lucky that we got to celebrate our wedding there. The planning is relaxed and easy. Hannah is super chilled, which instantly put us at ease. Any questions or worries we had we answered and we felt we were in safe hands throughout. The Petal and Feast Team are all bloody lovely, and definitely know there stuff, they were brilliant in the lead up and on the day, which meant zero stress for us.
The day itself was a dream. the food was delicious. The flowers were beautiful. The barn was perfect. We wouldn’t change a single thing… We had so many compliments, our friends and family still keep talking about it. We honestly can’t recommend it enough, if you are getting married, do it here!
Well… what can we say? We fell in love with Petal & Feast, The Barn, just everything straight away and yesterday didn’t disappoint. We and all our guests were blown away by everything. You are all so lovely, the food was amazing and my flowers were beautiful! Thank you for helping make our wedding dreams a reality and we will cherish the memories forever. Thank you!
We could not have chosen a more beautiful, rustic, relaxed and authentic venue for our wedding. Petal and Feast truly delivered on our day. It went so smoothly, we were able to fully relax and enjoy it, and not one thing went wrong. Our guests were also amazed by the flowers, food and setting, which are the qualities that really do make this place so incredible! Thank you to the whole P&F team, including the lovely farmer John, who contributed to our perfect wedding day!
Married September 2025
Petal & Feast are caterers, florists and run the Secret Barn in Steyning, West Sussex. The food was the best I have ever had at a wedding (big, inviting bowls of sharing salads, spit roast lamb, freshly baked breads, italian antipasti boards) all served by the P&F team (who are all delightful) – the type of dinner that feels like you’re in an Italian grandma’s house. They also have a vintage ice cream bike they serve home made ice cream from. The flowers were unbelievable and unique – an old ladder covered in foliage and peonies hung above the bar, and they covered vintage chandeliers in peonies and roses to hang from the ceiling. They were incredibly helpful throughout the planning process, answering all of our queries and helping us to arrange the more obscure aspects of a DIY-ish wedding (like hiring disabled porta-loos). They are a small team, so we really got to know them throughout planning, and they run the order of the day for you as well. The barn itself is beautiful and hidden away in West Sussex, and not particularly well known. The best wedding team ever!
Thank you so much for creating such masterpieces! The flowers were absolutely beautiful! The wedding would have been incomplete and significantly less stylish without your efforts.
I stumbled across the Secret Barn when looking for venues and am so glad that I did. From the moment we looked at the website, we knew this was a special place and had the vibes we were looking for. Local food and flowers all in a lovely rustic, twinkly setting. We booked straight away after being shown around by Hannah, who was super relaxed and absolutely not pushy. We had a few visits to the barn whilst waiting for our date to arrive, and it felt so exciting each time. On the day itself, Petal and Feast helped us to have an epic wedding day. The food was stupendous, the flowers were incredible, everything was perfect – what we had hoped for and more. Everyone was raving about the food, the relaxed vibes and could see exactly why we fell in love with the venue all that time ago. I would encourage anyone who is after a fun but relaxed day to check out the Secret Barn and the lovely Petal and Feast Team. Thank you so much again to all involved, you’re the best!
Married April 2025
Thank you, Petal and Feast, for helping us have the happiest day ever. The venue and flowers were just so beautiful – it felt like spring had sprung in our barn – it was full of joy! The relaxed but oh so special countryside feel was really wonderful. And as for the food! Was so delicious, and the informal serving style really helped create the atmosphere we wanted – all our favourite people having the happiest time with us. All our guests said it was the most magical wedding ever. Thank you again from all of us.
Married April 2025
We wanted to say the biggest thank you for helping to make our day absolutely perfect. Everything from the food to the flowers and the absolute friendliness of you guys was amazing. We have had so many guests commenting on how stunning the the venue was and how fabulous the food and flowers were. We are so grateful to you all and would absolutely recommend you!
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Yes, we have tons of experience helping couples put together their perfect wedding, and we help you every step of the way throughout the planning process. We have various planning days in the run-up to your wedding and can recommend lovely suppliers.
Yes! We are licensed for the legal wedding ceremony so you can do that on site in our beautiful old Sussex Barn, alternatively you can find a celebrant to conduct a personalised wedding blessing.
You have exclusive use of the site and we are by no means a wedding factory, only booking a very limited number of weddings each year so you will have access to the Barn to set up Thursday and Friday and clear up on the Sunday and Monday so lots of time to put your stamp on the venue.
Yes, the barn is set on a working farm so there are plenty of green open space where you could set up an outdoor marquee.