Based on a weekday wedding in January. Includes accommodation.
Based on a weekday wedding in January. Includes accommodation.
These items are not included in the price above but can be added for an additional fee:
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Open since June 2012, Southend Barns is a family-run wedding venue located on what was once a working farm. Located in the beautiful West Sussex Countryside, Southend Barns has been lovingly restored with rustic charm and romantic touches. Built and run to be as eco-friendly as possible, the wedding barns have been carefully restored to create the perfect setting for a romantic civil ceremony and wedding reception.
Fully licensed for all civil ceremonies and partnerships, Southend Barns offers two ceremony spaces, which can be finalised on the day of your wedding.
The Dairy Barn is their indoor ceremony space. It has a serene ambience and simple yet romantic styling to complement all wedding day themes. Featuring a sweeping aisle, wooden beams and a crisp, neutral colour palette, the Dairy Barn provides the perfect backdrop to add your own style.
The Secret Garden is the outdoor ceremony space. It is a fantastic way to create a unique wedding inspired by nature, adding a sunlit sparkle to daytime ceremonies. Nestled in a peaceful spot between our fields and the flint walls of the Dairy Barn, the garden is lined with elegant concrete benches and surrounded by beautiful borders. The sweeping 50-foot aisle leads to a sheltered pagoda where vows are exchanged.
The Collecting Yard is a beautiful space for your drinks reception. Spacious and perfectly maintained, it is ideal for mingling with guests, live entertainment, musical performances, or relaxed conversation. The all-weather Collecting Yard includes a terrace bar, sheltered alfresco seating and a roaring fire pit.
The Threshing Barn is a magnificent space for your wedding breakfast and evening party. Exuding countryside opulence with exposed wooden beams and original features, it offers flexibility for all sizes and styles of wedding receptions. The barn provides a stunning backdrop for your celebrations, whether as a dining hall, a lively space for dancing or a banquet setting for festive or winter-themed occasions. Experienced event managers can recommend layouts that perfectly suit your vision.
The Milking Parlour is the perfect finishing touch to an unforgettable wedding. With its stylish interiors, you can relax and indulge in the memories of your day. Located in a private courtyard with a rose garden and water feature, it offers a calm and luxurious retreat. A freshly prepared Roots breakfast hamper is delivered the next morning for your enjoyment. The Milking Parlour can also be used by the wedding party to get ready, with large mirrors, comfortable seating and all the facilities needed for those important preparations.
Mama Lou Shepherd’s Hut is the epitome of first-class glamping. Set in the alpacas’ grazing field with its own festoon-lit private pathway and garden, it has been immaculately restored to create a sumptuous and unique retreat. In the fridge, you’ll find chilled prosecco, fresh juice, milk and coffee to accompany your breakfast delivery.
Enjoy a night of luxury under the West Sussex sky with their beautiful bell tent accommodation. In total, there are nine tents sleeping up to 18 adults and two children – including eight luxury bell tents and one spacious family tent that accommodates up to two adults and two children. Each bell tent is equipped with lighting and charging points, double beds dressed in Egyptian cotton bedding, and exclusive access to bathroom facilities, including showers and toilets, complete with indulgent Land & Water toiletries and soft towels.
In the morning, guests can head to the brand-new Piggery Pit Stop, an additional tent serving a delicious continental breakfast in a relaxed, grab-and-go style. With freshly prepared pastries and muffins to start the day, plus Nespresso coffee machines for takeaway coffees, it’s the perfect Southend Barns send-off.
Roots Catering is the in-house team of talented chefs who are passionate about fusing fresh, local ingredients with creative flair to create mouth-watering menus that evolve with the seasons. From sharing platters and street food to decadent three-course feasts and plant-based dishes, the chefs look forward to designing a wedding menu tailored perfectly to you.
At Southend Barns, choosing the right drinks is just as important as the food. From signature cocktails and mocktails to an extensive wine list and our very own Southend Craft Lager and Southend Crisp Cider, every option is chosen to enhance your celebration. Drinks are served in elegant glassware and poured by a dedicated team.
At Southend Barns, sustainability is at the heart of everything they do. As a countryside venue on a working farm, the team are dedicated to protecting and nurturing the buildings, land and surrounding environment. Their efforts enable them to proudly offer carbon-neutral weddings to couples.
Sustainability extends beyond the barns themselves and encompasses Southend Farm, where they prioritise soil regeneration to enhance organic matter and microbial diversity, ultimately improving long-term soil health.
Roots Catering also prioritises buying locally, supporting nearby suppliers and reducing food miles – and therefore reliance on fossil fuels. The addition of an on-site allotment has further developed their home-grown offering of seasonal vegetables, berries and herbs.
To all the team at Southend Barns and Roots Catering, we just wanted to say thank you so much for making our day so amazing. It really was the best day of our lives and we are incredibly grateful for all the hard work you guys put in to ensure everything ran smoothly.
I can’t believe it’s all over. I want to do it all again. Me and clayton just want to take a moment to thank all the staff at Seb for your hard work on making our vision come true. The venue looked amazing and all the staff are so friendly, helpful and just amazing. It really was all we imagined and more so thank you all so so much for everything. The best day ever.
Married February 2024
Southend Barns, the DREAM TEAM! What can we both say other than a massive THANK YOU! You have all made this day more than we could have dreamed that it would be. Organising a wedding from Dubai was not easy, however you were all there and so supportive whenever we needed you. The venue and your team have made this day so very special! Thank you again for everything.
Where to start!! There is a lifetime of build up to a wedding, people dream about that day so for us to be able to say that it was more than we could have imagined is a huge thing. Every detail was looked after, nothing was too much and you made us feel like the most special people in the world!
The day was seamless, from arriving and having a bottle of champagne ready for the groom, to how safe you made me feel before I took my first steps down the aisle. The food was breathtaking, we both wish we weren’t so nervous so we could have eaten more. The beef and pavlova were the stars of the show. You have given us the most incredible memories that we will keep for a life time, we can’t thank you enough!
Can we come and do it all again??
We want to say a big thank you for our amazing wedding day. We loved every single moment, and all our guests thought it was incredible. The venue is so beautiful and we were very lucky to get married outside with the weather just about holding out for us. We loved that we got to spend time at the venue so much before our wedding day, with a date night and a taster evening, that on our wedding day, we felt completely comfortable and at ease with the fantastic service we had already received.
Married April 2024
To everyone at Southend Barns. Thank you so much. You helped us get through all of our changed plans, months of uncertainty and many ups and downs of wedding planning and we ended up having the most perfect day! We are so appreciative of everything you did to make our day special. P.S we’re still all thinking about those salted caramel profiteroles.
Thank you so much. We had the best day! And wish we could do it all over again. We wanted to say thank you to all the team for making it the best day, everything went off without a hitch and the whole day from start to finish was perfect! The team made me feel more at ease before I walked down the aisle as I was so nervous. All of our guests said what a stunning venue with amazing food, and everyone said how on it the staff were. No one ever had to ask for anything, drinks were always being poured, and the food was delicious.
Married May 2024
A woefully late thank you to you all (Sophie, Amie, Marc, Mariella and everyone else) for having us last week. We had the best day and can’t thank you enough for everything you did to make it happen. We can’t believe that it was our “take 3” wedding – it exceeded all our expectations! So a huge thank you again. Pete’s sister has already decided to have her wedding with you (and she’s not even engaged!).
The Dairy Barn, a charming and rustic venue, is licensed for Civil Wedding Ceremonies. For those who prefer an outdoor setting, we have a fully licensed ceremony area, The Secret Garden, surrounded by lush greenery and blooming flowers.
No, our catering is provided by our brilliant own in-house team, Roots.
The Threshing Barn, with its spacious layout, is perfect for weddings and events of all sizes. Whether you're planning an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, we can adapt the space to suit your needs. We offer the option to install organza drapes or white wooden screens to create a more intimate atmosphere. Additionally, we can rearrange the furniture and even bring in an outdoor sofa to transform the barn into a relaxed bar area.
Yes, our Milking Parlour has been revamped into a luxurious bridal suite located in its own private courtyard. Once used as a dairy parlour, it has now been refurbished with contemporary interiors complete with driftwood mirrors, lavish rugs, and a log fire. In addition to stunning suite gardens featuring a water feature and seasonal florals, this is the perfect spot for a couple's portrait.
In order to comply with our premises licence, all music must cease by 23:30, taxis should be booked to arrive by 23:45, and guests must have left by midnight.