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Notley Abbey

From £2,000

Based on a weekday wedding in January.

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Notley Abbey is a dream, home-from-home wedding venue located on the border of Buckinghamshire and Oxfordshire. This historic abode, which was once the home of Laurence Olivier, can now be your dream home, exclusively, for 24 hours.
Key Info
Notley Abbey
Aylesbury Road
Thame
Oxfordshire
HP17 8TN
Website: www.harperweddingvenues.co.uk
Tel: 0345 130 9966
Email: notleyabbey@harperweddings.co.uk
 
 
Capacity
Ceremony:164
Dinner:164
Standing:250
Facilities
Licensed For Marriage:Yes
Accommodation:9 bedrooms
Exclusivity:Yes
Food & Drink
Catering:In-house
Bar:In-house
Licensed Until:1am
Other
Pets Welcome:Yes
Disabled Facilities:Yes
Child Friendly:Yes
Contact venue for late availability and exclusive offers
Pricing
From £2,000

Based on a weekday wedding in January.

Starting price includes:
  • Exclusive use venue hire.

Please contact the venue for detailed prices.

About
Setting

Notley Abbey offers an intimate yet grand experience, a historic wedding venue that effortlessly combines timeless elegance with a welcoming, home-like atmosphere. Positioned along the scenic border of Buckinghamshire and Oxfordshire, the abbey invites you to step into a world once inhabited by Laurence Olivier.

Upon arrival, the approach along a tree-lined drive hints at the experience awaiting within. Both in summer and winter, the venue provides a versatile backdrop with its inviting grand entrance hall, where roaring fires create warmth in the colder months, and natural light fills the space in summer. Photographic opportunities abound within the picturesque grounds, providing a stunning backdrop for capturing every moment.

Ceremony

Ceremonies at Notley Abbey take place in one of several exquisite locations, each providing a unique setting for exchanging vows. Choose from the intimate Abbot’s Hall, the refined elegance of the Monks’ Refectory, or opt for an outdoor ceremony amid the abbey’s enchanting grounds.

Reception

The Monks’ Refectory offers an impressive space for the wedding reception, where the Harper Team sets the stage for a romantic dining experience. With each detail thoughtfully arranged, the space transforms into an unforgettable dining setting, perfect for celebrating with friends and family.

The dedicated Harper Team ensures that your wedding at Notley Abbey feels effortless, attending to you and your guests throughout the celebration. With exclusive use of the venue, you’re guaranteed privacy and exceptional service, including personalised support from a specialist wedding planning team and access to Harper’s proprietary online wedding planning tools.

Accommodation

Nine thoughtfully appointed guest bedrooms await you and your guests, offering a restful retreat after a night of celebration. After dancing into the night, you’ll find comfort and quiet in these beautiful rooms before departing the next morning.

Food & Drink

An expert in-house team of banqueting chefs will provide exceptional food and drink tailored to your event.

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We held our wedding ceremony and reception with you on the 4th May. It was undoubtedly the best day of our lives. Having exclusive use of the venue was so important to us, and our guests were so impressed with the building, grounds, staff and delicious food. Many guests told us it was the best wedding food they have ever eaten (I agree it was fantastic!)

The day was seamless, and staff went to every effort to make sure Tom and I were happy, fed and watered. The staff were so fantastic, it almost felt like there were no staff there because everything was turned around so seamlessly and everything seemed to flow perfectly. A huge thank you to our day coordinator, Julie, and all the staff on the day.

 

Married May 2024

Georgia & Tom

Thank you to all at Notley Abbey – the day was perfect, and you were all amazing in helping us to have the most perfect day! We enjoyed every moment and were well looked after. All our guests have been so complimentary about the staff and the venue – it’s all been amazing!

 

Married June 2025

Caroline & Stuart

Words can’t fully capture how perfect the experience was. From the moment we arrived until the very last guest left, the staff made sure everything ran beyond smoothly. We truly felt taken care of, supported, and stress-free throughout the entire day. A special shoutout to Natalie and Ellie, who were absolutely wonderful – calm, kind, and so on top of every detail, as well as Maisie, who helped us in the lead-up to it. Notley Abbey gave us not just a wedding venue, but the wedding we had imagined, brought to life in the most seamless and beautiful way. We will be forever grateful, and if you’re considering it for your special day, I can’t recommend it highly enough.

 

Married September 2025

Geraldin & David

We just wanted to say, from the bottom of our hearts, thank you so much for everything on our wedding day and for making it the best day of our lives. Thanks to Julie and Maisie for bearing with us with our questions and being so understanding with last-minute adjustments in the run-up to the wedding. Thanks also to Gemma and Ellie for looking after us and making sure everything ran so smoothly on the day – everyone was impressed with how organised everything was.

 

Married June 2025

Jaqueline & Ho Ming

Our wedding day was beyond what we had dreamed of. The venue was stunning. The staff, especially Ellie and Maura, were incredibly helpful and really did minimise our stress. They were incredibly attentive and took good care of each of us, our families and the rest of the guests. The service throughout the day and night was impeccable. To top it all off, the food was tasty. The preferred suppliers that we used, combined with the beauty of Notley Abbey and the attentiveness of the Notley Abbey staff, made our day truly special. Many of our guests told us this was the best wedding they have ever been to!

 

Married August 2025

Emily & Roman

Dan and I had a wonderful wedding on Sunday and wanted to thank each one of you for delivering a fantastic experience for us and our guests.

Everything went smoothly, which meant that Dan and I could relax and enjoy our day. Thank you to Emily for the immense work before the wedding day and to both managers on the day. We felt your care in looking after us and your professionalism in managing last-minute changes. Thank you.

We received a lot of compliments for the food and drinks, and we personally found everything delicious. The Arancini and the Gnocchi, in particular, have received praise from all – and you had a tough Italian crowd, so kudos to the chefs! Thank you to all the staff, waiters, barman, room cleaners and everyone in between. Each person we crossed paths with on the day was so professional and friendly and delivered a high standard of service. Thank you to all.

You have a naturally beautiful venue, which we can see you look after with great care and has left an impression on all our guests. Again, thank you to all the team at Notley Abbey. We had a magical day!

 

Married July 2024

Francesca & Dan

To all the staff at Harper Weddings and Notley Abbey, from the bottom of our hearts, we would both like to say thank you for everything you have done for us in the run up to our wedding and on the actual wedding day itself. You have given us the perfect day for the rest of our lives and we are so grateful. The professionalism of all the staff, the dedication to the little details and the quality of service made our day incredibly special, and it ran like clock work which for a worrier like me was very reassuring. You have always gone the extra mile by letting us visit whenever we liked, you’ve always been quick at replying to emails and you also went out of your way to provide post cards and sticks of rock for us. We’d like to give special mentions to Ann and Jess, who are both a credit to your staff and who made our day the perfect day that it was. We will always remember our incredible wedding at Notley Abbey and so will all our guests, so thank you once again.

Sarah & Sean

We just wanted to say we had an absolutely amazing time on Saturday, it couldn’t have been more perfect, and you truly did bring all our ideas and requests to life! Thank you so much again for answering all our questions over the last year and making sure everything ran smoothly on the day. We got so many compliments about the food too, and our friend, Hannah, really appreciated being catered for so well when she is allergic to nearly everything!

 

Married June 2025

Emma & Stefan

We cannot thank Notley Abbey and all of its staff enough for the most wonderful wedding day. To say you go above and beyond is an understatement. Right from the initial viewings, planning meetings and tastings, we were completely at ease because it was clear that you were extremely experienced and we had no doubts that our special day would be exactly that. The planning tool was fantastic – it gave us the ability to interactive with you regularly and your responsiveness and willingness to adapt to bespoke ideas was exceptional.

I could not fault anything on the day itself. We arrived, unpacked cars and before we knew it, everything had been taken to the right rooms. You had clearly taken note of our design ideas and plans as all the decorations had been laid out perfectly. I cannot praise Lisa and Barbara enough. Ladies – you were beyond amazing and we couldn’t have done it without you. You were calm, friendly and warming and you made sure everything went to plan. There are not enough words to describe how thankful we are to both of you for everything you did.

We would thoroughly recommend Notley Abbey and Harper Weddings to anyone. Your service is nothing short of exemplary and the team work is incredible to see. Thank you to everyone – we loved it so much, we’d do it all over again!

Samantha & James

I just want to say a massive thank you to everyone who played a part in making our day so special, the venue is amazing, but your team were truly fantastic.  Everyone was so professional and the attention to detail was perfect, with everyone definitely on the same page, a true team!!!

Pakize & Warren

Just wanted to say a huge thanks to all of the Notley team for putting on our incredible wedding. The service was outstanding, and no request was too much. The day ran seamlessly, and all of the guests were incredibly complimentary. Everyone was so complimentary about the whole day, with plenty of guests saying it’s the best wedding they’ve been to!

 

Married June 2025

Becca & James

I cannot thank the team at Notley Abbey enough for their help with the wedding. Everything was easy from the planning and the day itself. The care and dedication they show to putting on the best day possible for you and your family is incredible. We had the most perfect day and felt so looked after and cared for – to the point we felt like guests at our own day! The biggest thank you to all the team and a special shoutout to Daisy, Maisie, Gemma and Natalie who went above and beyond for us throughout the whole process. Thank you so much.

 

Married September 2025

Victoria & Nicholas

We just wanted to express our profound thanks for all of your hard work and care in helping make our wedding day so special. Your professionalism, talent, and kindness throughout the process and on the day itself really meant the world to me and to Daniel! We are so grateful for everything you did to help the weekend run smoothly and beautifully. Notley is a truly special, beautiful venue, and the catering and drinks were perfect. Our guests keep telling us it’s the best wedding they’ve been to, and that’s 100% due to the Notley team! It was such a joy to work with you. Thank you again for being such an important part of our celebration!

 

Married August 2025

Laura & Daniel

We had the absolute best time at our wedding, and several of our guests said it was the best wedding ever!! From pre-planning to getting ready to making sure we were where we needed to be, the Notley team did a phenomenal job. Could not be happier with Notley and the team. Thank you for making our dreams come true!

 

Married July 2025

Kiana & Rufus

Having researched and visited multiple venues, we decided on Notley Abbey after a recommendation. There may be cheaper options out there, but why take the chance on sub-standard quality for your big day? That’s the view we took, and we now have our memories of an amazing day to cherish forever.

The service on the day was absolutely exquisite. It was raining heavily on arrival, but the team on-site was waiting for us with umbrellas. And they were by our side every step of the way thereafter. You don’t know what to expect from the service on the day until you experience it for yourself, and it honestly exceeded our best expectations. Fortunately, the clouds parted in time for the ceremony in the beautiful monks’ refectory, and we celebrated with bubbles and canapés in the sunshine in the gorgeous grounds of Notley Abbey. Our guests were blown away.

The online planner takes some getting used to initially, but the team is on hand for a phone call to help while you get used to it. We honestly cannot find a fault with how the team performed. It was flawless. If you’re considering this venue and Harper Weddings for your wedding, don’t hesitate any longer and place your trust in them; you won’t regret it.

 

Married June 2024

Julia & James

We wanted to say a huge, huge thank you to you, and to everyone who was involved in helping our planning come to life, and especially to the team who were there on the day itself. From the second we arrived at Notley on the morning of our wedding, we were taken care of extremely well, everything was incredibly smooth, the team were all so helpful, and no ask was too big (we especially appreciated having a couple of canapés held back for us!). We can’t get over what an amazing day it was, so thank you again for the part you and everyone at Notley played in that!

 

Married September 2025

Rebecca & Dom

We got married at Notley Abbey, and we had the most breathtaking day.

The venue is incredibly beautiful. Every detail has been meticulously designed and the staff are incredibly dedicated in wanting to give you a perfect day from start to finish. In the two years of planning, we received detailed, helpful responses to our questions, normally within hours of the messages being sent. As a part of our package, we had multiple in-person or Zoom meetings to support us with the planning process. The planning team worked seamlessly alongside us to make our vision for our day come to life. On the day, everything ran like clockwork. The staff were professional and courteous and showed such a wonderful level of excitement for us. Thank you so much to the whole team at Notley/Harper for giving us the perfect day.

 

Married May 2024

Aysha & Zoe

Just wanted to say a massive thank you to the whole team. It was truly an amazing day. The service was faultless and we couldn’t have asked for more. Please pass on our thanks to everyone who made our day so special.

Sarah & Greg

The day was amazing; from the moment we arrived, we were greeted by Gemma, who showed me to the bridal suite and had some bubbles brought to the room. We wanted to get married outside and decided on the Walled Garden, and she made it happen. She didn’t try to convince us to have it inside, as it was already set up. She was our go-to on the day, ensuring whatever we needed at all times (a drink, canapes, etc). Julie was behind the scenes making sure everything was executed exactly as per our wishes in the planner.

We would very much recommend Notley Abbey and want to thank Emily, Gemma and Julie for everything they did.

 

Married May 2024

Khadija & Thomas

Needless to say we had the most AMAZING day, and experience at Notley. It’s such a special place and we’re thrilled that we chose it for our wedding. A huge thanks to you for all your help in organising a seamless experience and to the team on the day for looking after us so thoroughly well. Just wish we could do it all again!

Alexa & Phil
FAQs
Do you offer overnight accommodation?

Yes, Notley Abbey has nine bedrooms onsite.

Is the venue licensed?

Yes, Notley Abbey is licensed to host a civil ceremony both indoors (with a choice of two indoor ceremony rooms) and outdoors.

Do you have in-house caterers?

Yes, with the luxury of having all your food and drink arranged by our brigade of in-house chefs you won't need to worry about a thing. There will always be enough food and drink per guest to ensure your guests have a fabulous time and the party continues through the evening.

Do you help with planning?

Yes, with an experienced team of wedding planners available seven days a week, a team of managers on the day who go out of their way to ensure our service exceeds your and your guest's expectations, and unique online planning software so every detail is documented, our impeccable service is second to none.

What facilities does the venue have?

Notley Abbey has many facilities to offer, including modern tech for a contemporary wedding: Sonos sound system, up lighters, live stream webcams, microphones and DJ facilities. In addition, the venue offers an outdoor ceremony space, overnight accommodation and onsite parking. The list goes on!

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