Based on a weekday wedding in April.
Based on a weekday wedding in April.
Please contact the venue for detailed prices.
Cowdray House is located at the heart of the 16,000-acre Cowdray Estate in West Sussex. It is surrounded by beautiful, manicured gardens and the rolling hills of the South Downs. At Cowdray House, timeless elegance blends with the gentle warmth of a former family home to create a peaceful, romantic wedding setting unlike any other.
Whether you’re looking to host an intimate gathering for 15 guests or a larger reception for up to 150, their 22 luxurious bedrooms and opulent reception rooms will ensure that your wedding day, weekend, or week-long stay will leave you with memories to last a lifetime.
For the ceremony, whether an intimate outdoor gathering in the beautiful gardens or a grand event inside the house’s opulent interiors, Cowdray House offers a variety of options.
Couples can choose Buck Hall, located at the heart of the house, featuring a vaulted ceiling, an arched minstrels’ gallery, and a striking central fireplace. Other options include the elegant, wood-panelled Dining Room or the outdoor Summer Pavilion, which overlooks the manicured lawns and is ideal for warmer months. All these locations are licensed for civil ceremonies.
Cowdray House’s dedicated team, along with their esteemed suppliers, is experienced in planning and managing bespoke, prestigious events and will work closely with couples to bring their ceremony vision to life.
Cowdray House is an exclusive-use wedding venue, allowing all rooms and spaces to be transformed to suit your perfect day.
For the ceremony, whether it takes place in Buck Hall beneath the stunning vaulted ceiling or in the Summer Pavilion, the drinks reception can follow either outside on the manicured croquet lawn or inside two of the elegant reception rooms-the Library and Drawing Room-which open onto the front terrace. Here, guests can enjoy a glass of fizz while taking in the views of the gardens and the South Downs in the distance.
After the reception, drinks, and photos in the gardens, guests can move into Buck Hall for the wedding breakfast. Situated at the heart of the house, Buck Hall provides a magnificent setting for dinner and speeches, accommodating up to 150 guests and offering a beautiful backdrop for celebrating with loved ones. Alternatively, a marquee can be set up in the grounds for those preferring an outdoor space.
As night falls, live music and dancing take place in the Dining Room, where guests can celebrate and dance the night away until the early hours.
Cowdray House has 22 lavish bedrooms, each individually designed with opulent bathrooms, perfect for the wedding party to stay in during the festivities. The Diamond Suite, with its far-reaching views, large balcony, stunning bathroom and dressing room, is the perfect place for the bride and bridesmaids to get ready.
Guests can enjoy the amazing facilities when staying at Cowdray House, including indoor and outdoor swimming pools, a bowling alley, and a tennis court. There is also the opportunity to make use of the activities on the wider Estate, from a round of golf on the 18-hole championship course to fly fishing for brown trout on the River Rother, wildlife tours, and clay pigeon shooting.
Additional accommodation is also available across the Estate, including the newly refurbished luxury holiday cottages complete with hot tubs and far-reaching views, perfect for a mini-moon after the wedding or for guests considering a longer stay. There are also four self-catered cottages at Benbow Pond, private, secluded luxury treehouses easily accessible from The Walled Garden, and nearby Bed and Breakfast Accommodation at the Lodge.
The in-house catering team, The Yellow Kitchen, serves the best local and Estate-sourced produce where possible, making the most of Cowdray’s offerings.
You can also consider a selection of carefully chosen external caterers. Their events team will work closely with you to ensure your day unfolds exactly as you envisage it.
Sustainability means a lot to the Cowdray House team and the wider Cowdray Estate. They’re always looking for ways to improve their impact, from ensuring that all florals are sustainably sourced to their in-house caterers, The Yellow Kitchen, using locally sourced produce from the Estate.
The wider Cowdray Estate, nestled amongst the rolling hills of the beautiful South Downs National Park, has plenty to offer the wedding party and guests. This includes the award-winning Farm Shop, Café, and Lifestyle shop, exhilarating polo matches in the summer months on nearby Lawns, rounds of golf at the Cowdray Golf Club, and many enjoyable scenic walks across the Estate.
There is also plenty to do further afield, such as mountain biking in the South Downs, visiting West Wittering Beach, taking a stroll through the lovely village of Petworth, or stopping by one of the picturesque countryside pubs located nearby.
For those driving, entering the venue’s address into Google Maps will direct you along the A272 and to the gates of Cowdray House. After turning onto the drive, continue to the front of the house, where signage will guide you to the parking area.
Haslemere is the closest station for guests travelling by train, offering direct services to and from London. From the station, it is a quick 20-minute drive to the Cowdray Estate, and plenty of taxis are available.
Thank you both so much! I will be sending an effusive email of thanks very soon – honestly we had the most incredible time and you have both been wonderful, as has everyone at Cowdray that we’ve had the pleasure of meeting.
May 2022
A huge thank you for making our day at Cowdray so perfect. We felt incredibly well looked after from the very beginning which made the whole process so relaxing and enjoyable – two things I was worried don’t normally happen at your own wedding. Cowdray House truly was a spectacular venue one which will forever be treated in our memories. Thank you for everything you all made it so perfect.
May 2022
Firstly, we want to say a huge, huge thank you again for everything you did to help make our wedding day such a fantastic day. We could not have asked for more than the service you and your staff provided, and it goes without saying that you were all such a massive part of making our day so special and run so smoothly. Our guests – especially our parents – could not stop singing Cowdray’s praises. Thank you so much again. We’re so glad we chose Cowdray to host our wedding!
April 2022
Just a quick message to say what a wonderful day we had on Saturday. We couldn’t have asked for more. We were so pleased we could get married in such a beautiful setting and the weather was kind to us too. Your staff were absolutely amazing, they couldn’t do enough for us and worked really hard to make our day go exactly as we wanted it to. I was bowling in my wedding dress at 2am!! A really wonderful day. Please pass on our thanks to all the staff, we were genuinely very sad when it was all over but have some wonderful memories.
July 2022
A huge thank you to both yourself and your team to making our weekend so very special. It is such an amazing venue and been allowed you use it as though it is home is something very special. The level of help and support to ensure that Ged and I had the most amazing weekend was awesome so thank you so much.
July 2022
Thank you so much! We had the best wedding ever, I can’t thank you all enough!
March 2022
Words can’t quite express the gratitude we have for the entire team at Cowdray.
The COVID rules meant we could no longer host our 15-person wedding reception at home, and we benefitted from a last minute COVID cancellation at Cowdray. Guy and his team made the wedding of our dreams come together in just five weeks. The house and grounds are unbelievably beautiful with multiple Christmas trees and roaring fires in every room creating the perfect backdrop for a festive winter wedding. Jo took care of every little detail over the weekend and enabled us to have an incredible stay while feeling completely safe in these crazy times.
We’re already trying to find an excuse to rent the house again!
Married December 2020
We had the best day imaginable – I knew it would be good but it was truly better than we could have ever hoped. Thanks so much again – Cowdray will always be so special for us.
March 2022
I just couldn’t wait any longer to get in touch and say the biggest thank you to you both, and all of the Cowdray Team, for everything you did to make sure James and I had the wedding of our dreams and then some!
We really cannot fault you, from the moment I spoke to you on the phone, Amber, to all your help and patience the day before, Sam, we just don’t know how to thank you enough. So, I’m starting with this message as we’re off on our mini-moon today, but I promise I will be back in touch with a proper thank you ASAP on our return.
In the meantime, please do share our thanks and gratuity to the wider team for all their hard work too. thank you again for everything, you’re both some of the loveliest people I’ve ever met and I just feel so lucky to have had the opportunity to plan my wedding with you.
March 2022
A massive thank you to you and the whole Cowdray team for your amazing support yesterday and in the run up. You guys really did make the difference in elevating proceedings to an exceptional level, all the guests staying at the house noted this too. Really appreciate you making our special day so incredible and Cowdray will be a memory we enjoy forever.
April 2022
Ruben and I truly had the most magical day thanks to the Cowdray House team, we can not stop speaking about how amazing our experience was. Everything ran so smoothly and Erin was absolutely amazing!! The Cowdray House is truly a special venue. We wish we could repeat the entire day again. We will for sure be back.
April 2022
Up to 150 dining banquet style or 120 on rounds.
Dining Room - 80 guests
Buck Hall - 150 guests
Summer House - 30 guests (with more on the lawn)
Yes, there are plenty of options.
Cowdray House has 22 double bedrooms, wider Estate accommodation is also available at the holiday cottages and Lodge.
We do, our team will be happy to send it to you.