Based on a weekday wedding in January. Includes accommodation.
Based on a weekday wedding in January. Includes accommodation.
These items are not included in the price above but can be added for an additional fee:
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Open since June 2012, Southend Barns is a family-run wedding venue located on what was once a working farm. Located in the beautiful West Sussex Countryside, Southend Barns has been lovingly restored with rustic charm and romantic touches. Built and run to be as eco-friendly as possible, the wedding barns have been carefully restored to create the perfect setting for a romantic civil ceremony and wedding reception.
Fully licensed for all civil ceremonies and partnerships, Southend Barns offers two ceremony space options, which can be finalized on the day of your wedding.
The Dairy Barn is their indoor ceremony space. It has a serene ambience and simple but romantic styling to complement all wedding day themes. The Dairy Barn is a beautiful space for a ceremony, featuring a sweeping aisle and wooden beams with a crisp and neutral colour palette, perfect for adding your own wedding day style.
The Secret Garden is their outdoor ceremony space. It is a fantastic way to create a unique wedding inspired by nature, adding a sunlit sparkle to daytime ceremonies. Nestled in a peaceful spot between their beautiful fields and the flint walls of the Dairy Barn, the outdoor wedding ceremony garden is lined with elegant concrete benches and surrounded by beautiful borders. The sweeping 50-foot aisle leads to a sheltered pagoda where vows will be exchanged.
The Collecting Yard is a beautiful space for your drinks reception. It is spacious and perfectly maintained, ideal for mingling with guests, entertaining, musical performances, and evening relaxation. Experienced caterers and staff provide choices of seating and dining. The all-weather Collecting Yard comes complete with a terrace bar, sheltered alfresco seating, and a roaring fire pit.
The Threshing Barn is a magnificent space for a wedding reception and party, the Threshing Barn exudes countryside opulence with exposed wooden beams and original features. Offering plenty of flexibility for all sizes and styles of wedding reception, it is the perfect backdrop for your evening celebrations. The event managers can recommend varied layouts to reflect your perfect wedding, with a large area that can accommodate a wide range of guests, acting as a dining hall for your wedding breakfast, an entertaining space for evening dancing, or as a banquet area for festive or winter-themed occasions.
The Milking Parlour is the perfect finishing touch to an incredible wedding; with its serene and stylish interiors, you can relax and indulge in the memories of your day. Located in its private courtyard with a rose garden and water feature, the Milking Parlour provides a calm and relaxing space for you throughout the special day. A freshly prepared Roots breakfast hamper is delivered the next morning to enjoy. The Milking Parlour can also be used for the wedding party to get ready in, with large mirrors, seating and all the facilities needed for the important wedding day preparations.
Mama Lou Shepherd’s Hut is the epitome of first-class glamping. Set in the alpaca’s grazing field with its own festoon-lit private pathway and garden, it has been immaculately restored to create a sumptuous and unique retreat. In the fridge, you’ll find chilled prosecco, fresh juice, milk, and coffee to accompany the breakfast delivery.
Enjoy a night of luxury under the sparkling West Sussex sky, the beautiful new luxury bell tent accommodation offering. Sleeping 12 people in total, each of the six tents accommodates up to two adults and comes equipped with lighting and charging points, luxurious double beds complete with Egyptian cotton bedding, and a delicious continental breakfast created by Roots Catering delivered straight to the tent in the morning. The bell tents also have exclusive access to bathroom facilities, including showers and WC, with a range of decadent Cowshed toiletries and soft towels available.
Roots Catering is the in-house team of talented chefs passionate about fusing fresh ingredients with creative flair to create mouth-watering menus that evolve through the seasons. From sharing platters and street food to decadent three-course feasts and plant-based dishes, enjoy exploring the menus, and the chefs look forward to creating a wedding day celebration perfectly tailored to you.
At Southend Barns, choosing the right drinks is just as important as the dream menu, setting the overall tone and enhancing each dish or canapé to perfection, from the delicious range of cocktails and mocktails to the extensive wine list and very own Southend Craft Lager. All drinks are selected with the celebration in mind, served in elegant glassware and poured by a dedicated and attentive team to add to the experience and create memories lasting forever.
Carbon Neutral Weddings at Southend Barns, being a countryside barn venue on a farm, dedicated efforts have been put in to protecting and looking after the building, surrounding area and land. Having achieved a sustainable venue means they can offer carbon-neutral weddings to their soon-to-be wedded couples. The focus on environmental sustainability is achieved not only at the Barns but also at Southend Farm, making the soil better again and generating more organic matter in the top layer of the soil. Discovering the crops as well as the soil has its own microbiome, similar to what we humans have, they had to improve soil microbial diversity and richness to create better soil health.
Buying locally has been a priority for Roots Catering at Southend Barns. Not only does it support local suppliers, but it also reduces food miles and, therefore, reliance on fossil fuels. The addition of the allotment next to the barn has enhanced the now very local offer of vegetables, berries, and herbs.
A woefully late thank you to you all (Sophie, Amie, Marc, Mariella and everyone else) for having us last week. We had the best day and can’t thank you enough for everything you did to make it happen. We can’t believe that it was our “take 3” wedding – it exceeded all our expectations! So a huge thank you again. Pete’s sister has already decided to have her wedding with you (and she’s not even engaged!).
To all the team at Southend Barns and Roots Catering, we just wanted to say thank you so much for making our day so amazing. It really was the best day of our lives and we are incredibly grateful for all the hard work you guys put in to ensure everything ran smoothly.
I can’t believe it’s all over. I want to do it all again. Me and clayton just want to take a moment to thank all the staff at Seb for your hard work on making our vision come true. The venue looked amazing and all the staff are so friendly, helpful and just amazing. It really was all we imagined and more so thank you all so so much for everything. The best day ever.
Married February 2024
Southend Barns, the DREAM TEAM! What can we both say other than a massive THANK YOU! You have all made this day more than we could have dreamed that it would be. Organising a wedding from Dubai was not easy, however you were all there and so supportive whenever we needed you. The venue and your team have made this day so very special! Thank you again for everything.
Thank you so much. We had the best day! And wish we could do it all over again. We wanted to say thank you to all the team for making it the best day, everything went off without a hitch and the whole day from start to finish was perfect! The team made me feel more at ease before I walked down the aisle as I was so nervous. All of our guests said what a stunning venue with amazing food, and everyone said how on it the staff were. No one ever had to ask for anything, drinks were always being poured, and the food was delicious.
Married May 2024
To everyone at Southend Barns. Thank you so much. You helped us get through all of our changed plans, months of uncertainty and many ups and downs of wedding planning and we ended up having the most perfect day! We are so appreciative of everything you did to make our day special. P.S we’re still all thinking about those salted caramel profiteroles.
Where to start!! There is a lifetime of build up to a wedding, people dream about that day so for us to be able to say that it was more than we could have imagined is a huge thing. Every detail was looked after, nothing was too much and you made us feel like the most special people in the world!
The day was seamless, from arriving and having a bottle of champagne ready for the groom, to how safe you made me feel before I took my first steps down the aisle. The food was breathtaking, we both wish we weren’t so nervous so we could have eaten more. The beef and pavlova were the stars of the show. You have given us the most incredible memories that we will keep for a life time, we can’t thank you enough!
Can we come and do it all again??
We want to say a big thank you for our amazing wedding day. We loved every single moment, and all our guests thought it was incredible. The venue is so beautiful and we were very lucky to get married outside with the weather just about holding out for us. We loved that we got to spend time at the venue so much before our wedding day, with a date night and a taster evening, that on our wedding day, we felt completely comfortable and at ease with the fantastic service we had already received.
Married April 2024
The Dairy Barn, a charming and rustic venue, is licensed for Civil Wedding Ceremonies. For those who prefer an outdoor setting, we have a fully licensed ceremony area, The Secret Garden, surrounded by lush greenery and blooming flowers.
No, our catering is provided by our own in-house team, Roots.
The Threshing Barn, with its spacious layout, is perfect for weddings and events of all sizes. Whether you're planning an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, we can adapt the space to suit your needs. We offer the option to install organza drapes or bamboo screens to create a more intimate atmosphere. Additionally, we can rearrange the furniture and even bring in an outdoor sofa to transform the barn into a relaxed bar area.
Yes, our Milking Parlour has been revamped into a luxurious bridal suite located in its own private courtyard. Once used as a dairy parlour, it has now been refurbished with contemporary interiors complete with driftwood mirrors, lavish rugs, and a log fire.
In order to comply with our premises licence, all music must cease by 23:30, taxis should be booked to arrive by 23:45, and guests must have left by midnight.